Is your story satisfying?
April 23, 2009
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The Criteria
Two of the criteria for a satisfying book I have already mentioned. Is it authentic? That is, does it correspond to the world as you really know it? And is it comprehensive? Does it treat one aspect of human experience well, but leave others lacking? If a piece of literature fails to meet these criteria, it won't be satisfying.
Now that obviously doesn't mean that a book of fantasy, even a book of children's fantasy, can't be satisfying. Think of Harold and the Purple Crayon. It is not authentic in the sense that a child can use a purple crayon to create their own adventures; yet it is authentic in the sense that the story it tells of Harold's adventures correspond to the way creativity works in the world.
Intuition
Beyond these criteria, intuition plays an important role in deciding what is satisfying. We may love a book and not be able to pinpoint what it was that made it so satisfying; or we may utterly despise a book and yet not be able to put into words what made it objectionable. Far from discounting the criteria of satisfaction, intuition shows just how important it is - even when we can't put it into words.
Your story
What is true of children's literature is also true of the stories with which we make sense of the world around us. How do we explain to our children why they ought to do one thing, and not another? If the story that we tell does not have integrity (authenticity) and breadth (comprehensiveness), our kids intuit it (they're dissatisfied), and will look for a more satisfying story to understand their experiences.
The fact is, you may not be satisfied with your story. It may be that you have a deep sense that the story you've received from your family or community isn't satisfying. For example, the language that dominates the discussion of education is that of performance and productivity. President Obama frames education in terms of preparing workers for an economy. Is that a satisfying story? Does that invigorate learning, virtue and innovation? Will our kids find it compelling and satisfying?